our vacation

i know it has been a while since i posted anything, but i wanted to post about our vacation. we had a wonderful time, saw a great band and had some quality time enjoying the sun and each other. we ate a lot, we drank a lot, we had a lot of sex and some nice spank time! For me, just being together for that long was the best part. We usually only get 3-4 days at a time which is never enough. it is hard to cram weeks into such a short time period. i will tell you about some highlights, discoveries and my favorite spanking while on vacation.

Highlights:

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  Toy shopping - yes, we went toy shopping. Neither of us had ever been in a real "adult" store before. We knew what we were looking for but had to go to 3 or 4 before we found it. We had so much fun looking and giggling though, it was a very nice experience. Of course, if you look back at Ru's posts you will see what was purchased. I wore a nice, very short blue jean skirt for the occasion and, as promised, when we got home from dinner i got well acquainted with Ru's ottoman and our new paddle. :)


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  Picnic - on our last day we had a picnic. the day before we had gone to a local winery and picked up a new wine tote and a wonderful cheese ball mix. well, i made the cheese ball and some other snacks and we packed a bottle of wine and headed out for our picnic. Ru, being the romantic that he is, wanted to go some place very special and new for our picnic, but as time was short we opted for a spot by the water that was very close. it was great fun. just sitting, talking, sharing. it was one of my favorite moments.

Discoveries:

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  Bora Bora - i discovered that if we won the lottery, i would run away with Ru to Bora Bora. No second guessing, i would do it and leave all of this behind. of all the people i have ever known, i believe he is the only one i could spend all my time with and not be dreadfully bored. it was a nice discovery.


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  implements - let's see, this trip i was familiarized with the new leather paddle - i liked it - the hairbrush - owie, that sucker packs a punch - the yardstick - i liked it too, for some reason it makes me giggle. Not the best reaction when your bottom is sticking up in the air and someone is smacking you with one.......


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  Fear - there is not much i am truly afraid of. i am a strong independent woman. i fend for myself and have always taken care of myself. every time i try and let someone else take care of me, it is a disaster. i do not know why this is. i have discovered in recent days that i am afraid to loose Ru ...... this is unsettling to me in a way but reinforces my feelings for him. we have much in our way before we can truly be together the way we want to be.....time, distance, careers, family....... one cannot see the future thus there is always doubt.

Spanking

ok, so the ottoman was nice, erotic, but it was not my favorite while we were on vacation. there was another........

Some background.....Ru has this thing about wanting to make sure i am "in the mood". i am almost always in the mood, and if i am not it is either b/c i do not feel well, or i am in a bad mood.....if in a bad mood though, that may be just what i need anyway! but i digress.....so, i wanted to surprise him one day....difficult as we are always together there is not much time to set up. So anyway, Ru was taking me out to a club to go dancing and my shoes were in the car....i saw my opportunity to get him out of my way for a few precious moments.....so i got my "out fit" ready (an orange t shirt and some thigh high socks with orange and yellow stripes at the top and orange undies) and then asked him to go get my shoes out of the car. i changed quick fast in a hurry, grabbed the yard stick - yes, its origins were on vacation.....not sure how it ended up in the corner at my apartment...hehehehe.....the paddle and bent myself over the kitchen table so Ru would have a lovely view of my posterior when he walked back through the door. he thought i was up to something, so he was not as surprised as i would have liked, but he was surprised enough, and pleasantly so. i got VERY familiar with the yard stick. also, he did not hold back as much as he usually does, which i enjoyed. at the end, after the yard stick, the paddle, the brush and his hand......when i thought it was over or almost over, he said, can you take 20 more? i said yes. he said, ok, choose your implement and smacked me with each of the forementioned devices. Now, my bottom was pretty hot and sore by this time, so i chose the hand as it packed less of a sting. So, my Ru says ok, hairbrush it is! Thanks babe......it was pretty funny. he only smacked me twice (i think) with the brush and a few times with the yard stick and finished up with his hand ....... and believe me i was keeping count of every lick. then he kissed me and hugged me and lead me to the bedroom where we had amazing sex, i got a good rub, then we got dressed and went dancing. great night.

Something Unexpected

The day after i got home, Ru found out he did not have to go to the office so he came and stayed with me instead. We were together for 2 weeks. it was wonderful. But it was very hard for me on Friday when i knew he had to leave the next day. i was in a very dark mood. it is hard now when we seperate and it get's harder every time; but other than friday night, we had a wonderful 2 weeks together. Ru, thanks for always being there for me and for being such great parnter. I love u.